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Facilitation requires our participation

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I had a simple session to facilitate the other day. A short, 30 minute mindfulness practice. I was tired and had a lot on the go. To be honest I was also a little bored with these sessions and so I left it to the last minute. I joined, a little distracted and with a secret hope that no-one would arrive so I could get back to my day.

A few people joined. As I welcomed them and took us through an exercise, I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was off. I was off. We as a result were off. Maybe the group noticed it, maybe they didn’t. But I know that the potential of that space could have been far greater.

Facilitation, or at least the only kind of facilitation I’m interested in, can’t be performed. It requires us. We are the instruments.

But what about AI facilitation? Surely this evidences that facilitation can be just a process, transactional? Sure! If an AI were facilitating (which I believe could be the case for many meetings in future) then the only human experience is that of the participants. Whereas when I’m facilitating, I am also present. I am also participating.

And so from this simple session, I took a fresh intention to be prepared, present, and participating in every workshop. No matter how simple. No matter how small. This work requires us. Participants deserve us. And surely, the world needs us.

Responses

  1. Mark_Kilby

    I’ve had this happen when I’m facilitating the same type of gathering over and over. What I realized is I was missing the excitement of discovery. Who would join? What would they bring? What would I find? What might I do different?

    I focus on the last question more and more. I enjoy the discovery in conversation. So I’m always looking for new ways to “discover” in my facilitation.

    Hope that helps.

  2. Akshay Kapur

    I love Mark’s point about leaning into discovery and curiosity. It’s been so useful.

    “I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was off. I was off.”

    I sense you’re still in the meditation, because I hear acceptance, and whether that was felt in the moment or not, it’s showing up now. A recognition that you are human and this is how you are sometimes. I wonder what that would bring to the group…

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